Sleep and love help people heal
Simple pleasures heal complex situations. Sleep is truly a blessing when the unfortunate happens. It is a time to switch off and rest and then face another day towards getting stronger. Love is also a simple pleasure that can help people heal. The two work together as the cycle of bereavement. Love shown during the day and sleep at night.
Life is so short, but we still do the things that don’t matter and not the things that do. We say things we shouldn’t and ignore the little things we shouldn’t be.
It is not until we see someone else suffering that we think…wow how lucky are we?
Nevertheless don’t beat yourself up because humans have loads to juggle and so many expectations and things to achieve and be. We all make mistakes and all suffer at one time or another.
Unfortunately, it takes a loss of some kind for some people to realise what they failed to see. Would they have realised this if the unthinkable hadn’t of happened?
Until the unthinkable happens to us we cannot possibly know how it feels because there are too many unknowns. Even if two people lost a Sister, the bereavement process, even though it looks similar, would be very different for each person.
So the best advice is if we make a mistake or we have to suffer because someone else made a mistake, some basic comforts, like sleep and love will help. Situations can become so complex but simple pleasures can make things better.
Caz says
When situations occur in our lives,different people find different ways of coping with it.
Shaz says
thank you
Caz says
Yes,people seem to cope with situations and losses in their life in different ways.