The good night texts are going well, but are you compatible? Well, what a huge question. Our minds have so much to answer for – controlling everything – and it is especially problematic when we forget about our heart.
I don’t think compatibility tests are the answer. I think the fact that you are with someone and that has happened the way it has – then that is compatibility. People sometimes search for answers that are not there and this is due to many pre-conceived societal norms and this can be dangerous.
Obviously, if your safety is threatened in any way this is not a compatible situation and please seek help.
Sometimes we put so much pressure on ourselves we end up anxious and depressed and question the relationship – oh we just don’t make each other happy anymore, you are not really my type, how much love is enough, this must be the end for us.
The answer is to stop thinking like the above and start being proactive. I am with a wonderful Mother/Father, a great provider/homemaker, new partner, what can I do to show them I think they are special:
2. evening walks
3. day time phone calls’
4. date night
5. special good night texts
Don’t get caught up in what if and poor me – start living and stop fearing the uncomfortable.