The sleep team: If you have been in a relationship for a while and good night texts are a pleasant thing you do – then keep it pleasant and try to be different and creative and fun. Don’t overly try too hard all the time – just make an effort not to always text the same way.
There are plenty facets of a relationship and you have to spread the joy and not put all of the effort in just one area – or other areas will suffer and the relationship will never take off. Some areas only need certain pampering because the purpose served is small. Obviously, for example, spending time together and being there to meet the other person’s love language is vital and will need more effort than a good night text.
If you always text: “Good night sweet” then jazz it up a little and say: “Have a sweet night tonight”. The change does not have to be huge – it just has to be a change. A change tells others you are thinking and still wanting to please and like change and like spice.
The same old boring greeting tells people you are a little boring or can’t be bothered putting in effort or are really not into him or her. You don’t have to be in the running to win a literary award to add a bit of something to a good night text. Imagine the smile of the receiver – that is why we text.
People are not wanting long poems every night or a text ten paragraphs long; just something short, new, personal and cute.