If your partner wants to leave you and they have told you they want to leave you; the best thing you can do for yourself is let them leave.
When your partner wants to come to back, if this is what you lovingly want, let them come back. As long as all of your decisions are made with love and compassion, you are on the right track. Some people might think this sounds like the craziest idea on the planet and years ago I would have thought like this too.
If someone wants to do something; it is their business and there is nothing we can do, other than be loving and caring. You might think you don’t want to be loving and caring because you think your partner is running away, being selfish and horrible. The reason why you want to be loving and caring is because it is the best thing for YOU. If we start thinking other people are this way and that in a unloving way; these thoughts only eat away at us.
And the big thing here is it doesn’t matter how or why your partner left. If your partner cheated, gambled everything, or just left, the best way for you to handle it is the same: in a loving and caring way.
If your partner wants to leave you it could be for the best; especially because they are leaving. Every time we think what is really happening is wrong, in reality, we lose control and this can cause anxiety and depression. How do we know we wouldn’t be better off without our partner?
Even if your partner cheats on you and this is probably one of the hardest concepts for people to grasp; it is OKAY. If you want to stay in the relationship after they have cheated it is OKAY too and if you don’t that is okay too. If you are not able to stay in the relationship because of the affair; just tell the person that is the reason and do it in a loving way. If you be loving then you are helping yourself now and forever.
When we live in the past or the future, we become scared and that is understandable because we have no control over the past or future; only the now.
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