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Home » For and against sharing a bed

For and against sharing a bed

February 26, 2015 By Shaz Fisher Leave a Comment

Unfamiliar man and woman wake up in bedI have recently read lots of material stating more and more couples are opting to sleep in separate beds and the main reason being: they get a better night of sleep. And no doubt, until you are used to the person and work out bits and pieces, it might seem awkward for a while. However, isn’t this what marriage is about – compromise?

I don’t envisage the perfect married couple and then imagine them snugged up in separate beds. Yes, occasionally if one is really sick, it is probably a sensible thing to do.

So, why are people doing this more and more. Is it a stem from equality and are people thinking: “If I am not comfortable… there must be another way!”.

The main thing I struggle with is that sharing a bed all night is one sacred thing that the married couple share and it is sweet – in their special room and in their night wear, having a chat and waking up with a smile!!! I know it isn’t always as perfect as this, but variations are also nice!!!

I read that many couples reunite on weekends. Look, it could be a lot worse I guess, but no matter how much we sugar coat it and say it is great because we are refreshed for work and he gets up early blah blah, it isn’t a loving ritual.

A nice story would be to slowly reunite so every night is spent together – or start off with half a night! Imagine if you told people that you were in separate beds and then you realised you missed each other too much and you gradually made it work! Wow – now that is sweet!!!

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