Off to bed
It seems that couples going off to bed simultaneously is important. The reports are out that this is an important factor in a relationship. Apparently if you are not a go to bed early person you can go to bed with your partner and get up again!
I am thinking maybe every second night both partners could go to bed at the same time and compromise on the time (meet in the middle).
The worse thing is if one person goes to bed resenting it and that isn’t much fun for anyone.
Yes going to bed is a lovely thing, but I think having a night tea together, a cuddle on the lounge, a nice long chat over dinner, are also bonding moments and very special. Do people place too much emphasis on ‘the relationship must be doomed if we don’t go to bed at the same time’? I mean if that is the worst thing going on – I think you are doing well!
When you do go to bed it will still be nice and you have all night and the morning.
I think due to technology people are more inclined to stay up later.
Both people, in the couple, must talk about going ‘off to bed’ and decide what they both expect from each other and meet somewhere in the middle in their expectations and in their bed!