Sex is as complex any other human interaction. It involves emotions and communication and understanding and more. For some it just works without little thought, for others it doesn’t work at all and for most it works okay most of the time. Oh yes and there are the people who always talk about it being great and the ones in a new relationship!
Sex is complex, but only if two people decide not to discuss what they are feeling. When issues are talked about they seem less of an issue and two people become connected. Whether some people like it or not communications is vital and successful relationships cannot last on sex alone – they need communication to have great sex. Communications is not all verbal; it is very much non-verbal as well.
People need to get to know each other. Some people say they have a rocky relationship, but great sex? This doesn’t make sense, but be careful what people say. Some people will just say things to make themselves feel better and anyway the only relationship you need to think about in detail is your own.
The sex options:
Have sex when both people are in the mood
Have sex when one person is in the mood and the other tries to be mutually understanding
Don’t have sex because one person is really not in the mood
Don’t have sex because both people are too tired or not in the mood
Both people have the right attitude and anything is possible