Guys – don’t text to avoid ringing your girl and don’t ever text: “thank you for a good night”. While you may have had a good night..it kind of sounds like you had a night out with Mum or Grandma! Go to a bit of trouble or if you are really not interested then text: “thank you for a good night”!
Girls – don’t waste your time on men who don’t know what they want – you deserve better. Be choosey and be careful and don’t be shallow.
Guys – don’t text like a girl – this is not sexy – be a man and call.
Girls – if you are always doing the texting first – stop. We must teach people how to treat us.
Guys – if she doesn’t respond to your text and you are keen – then call her and ask her on a date. Texting is not always the answer and do not think an unanswered text is a disaster – it could mean so many things:
1. Did you use a ‘weird’ word or sound like “hmmmmm” in your text? Because that is off-putting.
2. Texts are not everyone’s thing.
3. I think texting within the hour is perfect or sooner if possible. Making women wait is cruel. No business meeting is that important – even if you say it is!
Girls – if he seems creepy – then stop texting.
So this is the verdict – texting is a new little bonus we have – but don’t hide behind it or let it make the dating game more complicated. Text a tiny bit, ring lots and go on lots of dates – that is the healthy ideal.