People don’t really talk about sex being less than ideal, but the reality is, like everything in life, it can’t be the best every time. However, what is important is that it is great some of the time. Having dinner out is sometimes the best night ever and other times okay and other times a disaster – well why would sex be any different? Society has attached a stigma that it should be amazing or there is something wrong!
So, if both people are happy with the sex then that is the normal, but if one person is not – it is important to communicate feelings. Men and women are very different in how they think and behave so to think such issues like sex don’t need to be discussed is ridiculous.
I read in an old Cosmopolitan that spending 10 minutes a day having sex and not expecting it to be great is a perfect solution for some couples! If we just go on probability alone – this has to be a positive step!!