If you text your room mate and you are both sitting in your rooms, it could be read as a few things: cute, weird, funny, sexy!? Be clear on your purpose – well if you can. I would not start sexting straight away – that could be a bit awkward!
Even if you start off – hey how was your day – they may not realise the ‘keen’ interest. You may need to make it a little more clear to some people. Maybe asking them to do coffee or a meal?!
When it is not okay?
* when they are dating another room mate
* if they have already made it clear they just want to be friends
When it is okay?
* if you have felt a sort of connection when face-to-face
* you are feeling good about yourself and it is a good day
Not being able to face them is okay too. But if your text is not well received – how will you face them tomorrow?
Embarrassment never killed anyone, but being love distraught came close! And what if tomorrow he or she meets the man or woman of their dreams because you didn’t??
Just think of the story you can tell on your wedding day – how sweet and romantic!