So, maybe if we eat right and eat organic our orgasms will be orgasmic! Well, it is true if we eat better, we feel better so I think eating better can only increase your chances of orgasmic success, however, it is naive to think that it is that easy!
Among friends (close friends) this topic of orgasmic success does rise from time to time, and the thing I have found (with regards to all of life’s achievements) is if something is easy for one person, it seems that it is hard for them to explain “how-to” because for them it has just worked.
Therefore, problems arise when others follow all of the guidelines proposed by a person who can achieve their goal naturally. I think the people who achieve certain successes, have knowledge to share of course, but I think their advice suits them and not necessarily someone else.
We often seek help outside for things we are not happy with in our life, but I think trusting ourselves more and taking the time to really discover our inner strengths and weaknesses can really provide insights. One of the most amazing things about confiding in ourselves and tuning in, is we are going to be really truthful and not sugar-coat what is really going on. I know people do tell their psychologists and therapist their inner-truths, but even the act of describing things and putting simple or complex thoughts into words, can alter its true meaning.
I might tell me friends I have an amazing ability to orgasm whenever and the friends who have trouble having orgasms or wanting anything to do with sex or pleasure will probably really dwell on this and just these thoughts will make their personal journey even harder. However, if I told my friends, I never masturbate and never want sex, this could have a mixed reaction, but not a positive one because comparing ourselves to others (whether it helps us feel better or not) is so dangerous for our own well-being.
I Googled organic orgasms after I came up with the term purely by chance and I found an article by Pamela Madsen: ‘What is an organic orgasm’, however, her focus was it isn’t all about orgasms because intimacy is just as important and I agree, because of course it is not all about orgasm, it is about personal pleasure for the individual. However, if it is all about organic orgasms for you, then, that is perfect for you.