written by: Gerald01
With the advent of the internet and modern technology, sexting has become part of our lives. From college girls with their teenage boyfriends to husbands and wives although to some this is still a touchy subject. However, sexting can add some spice to your relationship and build your chemistry to another level. Sexting is not only for teenagers as AARP reports shows the older generations have also jumped into the wagon. When done right, sexting will take your relationship to another level. To ensure you don’t fail in your first attempt, here are some tips to guide you into this new world of goodnight sexting.
Have your boundaries right
Different people have different opinions and different boundary levels. Know your partners level of comfort. Do not cross that boundary. With goodnight sexting options are limitless and you need to know exactly where the boundaries are. It may seem as insulting to others while to you is just a fun game to play.
Talk about it
Before engaging in goodnight sexting, talk to your partner about it. Find out if they are comfortable with it. If you are shy bringing up that topic, you can ask something like, ‘how do you feel about sexting?’ That will definitely give you an idea on where they stand.
Playing the game
Be subtle but excite the imagination with your goodnight sexting. Something simple like, ‘tonight….’ will leave them in suspense wondering about endless possibilities. From that point, the game is on and you just have to play along.
Avoid sexting too much too soon
Sexting too much too soon will work against you if you are in a new relationship. Give it sometime for the relationship to grow. When it comes such a time that you are comfortable with each other, then you can start sexting. You need to know and understand your partner first and reach a certain comfort zone with each other.
Keep a close eye on auto correct
Your smart phone can ruin your sexting with just a single word. Something meant to be sweet will be forwarded as weird due to auto correct. If for instance you intended to sext something like, ‘I can’t wait to get your coat off’. Your smart phone autocorrects ‘coat’ to ‘oats’ that will be a definite turn off. Make sure you confirm before hitting send.
Less is more
Mystery will keep your interest piqued. Be subtle and mysterious with your goodnight sexting. Too graphic messages may be a turn off to your partner. Exciting the imagination will make your partner long for the next meeting with you as opposed to graphic sexts.
Holding on the birthday suit pictures is always a good idea especially if your face is on it. You can dodge sending the picture by saying something clever like, ‘why not wait for the real thing?’
Whatever you choose to sext, as long both partners are okay with it, it will be fun. It will revitalize the chemistry between the two of you. A nice goodnight sexting session will leave you waiting anxiously for your next meeting.