Do I Have Issues In The Bedroom?
By Dale Mazurek
At the end of the day you will never know honestly if your actions in the bedroom have been satisfying for your partner. What you want to do is make sure you are doing your best and in this article I intend to help you a bit with these issues.
The problem comes in the question. If you are asking it then there probably is a problem. What we don’t know is if the problem is actually with your performance in the bedroom or if you just have low self confidence. It is however important for you to find out where the problem is. One thing is that it’s very important to learn whether or not you are satisfying your partner. The bad part is that it’s very tough to know when a woman is faking in the bedroom. Even men who have lots of experience in the bedroom sometimes have trouble determining what women are doing.
Now we have to think about the shouldn’t of happened issues. Or maybe the time you were too tired or stressed out. Maybe you had too much to drink and guess what happened. Unfortunately its times like this that beats up on a man’s self confidence. There are good and bad times and there isn’t a lot you can do about it except go with the flow. Don’t worry about your slip up. Just because of a little slip up you shouldn’t throw yourself confidence out the window.
Many things are out of your control when they go wrong. Even though modern technology has been supposed to make life easier it has only made things tougher with higher demands thus resulting in higher stress issues. Many men have to rely on stimulants but would probably not need them if they could just settle down.
Stress doesn’t only affect sexual performance. It has other side effects that can be just as bad. Some guys turn to drinking to bury their stress issues. It always starts out just as a couple of drinks with the guys and then it turns to entire nights out. Now with the significant amount of alcohol there is no way his performance could be anything except dreadful. It’s so important to recognize the signs of stress early so you can take steps to avoid it.
If you start questioning your performance than things could get bad. You could slide into a place that triggers self esteem. No matter what you have to stay on the positive side of things. There’s a good chance you are stressed or over worked. Maybe you have to change things up a bit in the bedroom. Remember every problem has an answer so just look around and I’m sure you will find it.
Dale has been happily married for 19 years. Between that and his studies he has become quite an expert at writing articles on the subject. You can see more of his relationship articles at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or check out 2 more of his very popular blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/